Dating and being married takes a lot of hard work. It does not just succeed without deliberate effort from both parties to make it work.
So what are the habits that can be destructive in a relationship? See some below and avoid them at all costs.
Blaming and Nitpicking:
When your partner has genuine concerns, don’t’ become defensive or escalate the situation.Instead listen.
Making important decisions without your spouse:
This will only cause contention and weaken emotional intimacy
Bottling up feelings:
Grudges are like poison in a relationship. Always forgive and forget.
- Badmouthing your in-laws They may not be your best friends but they raised your spouse!
Don’t compare your relationship to others:
Infographic credit: Swinston & Associaes Counselling